Where is it now?

Rahmah4u today

The world where no one wants to ask the other of their problems because they fear their help will be needed,….

The world where just because you couldn’t be as successful, you rejoice over their agony,…..

The world where to point finger “at” is common….

The world where we only want perfection in others not minding our flaws….

Welcome to the world where competition is regarded as success….

The world where a child doesn’t care what the parents feel……

The world where the less previledged are regarded as dirty….

The world where prayers is only needed when in trouble…….

The world where the “rich” mostly do not need God…….

The world where accidents happen but only video coverage, and selfies matters more than the patients……..

A place where if you are not of the “rich” your freedom is not yours…..

The place where if your profile is not showing you…

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What becomes of you after imitation???

Their looks, imitation, limitations….

In order to keep up with them, we try to imitate them forgetting that imitation isn’t reality.

The society today imitates simply because they want to fit in, got something for you.. Yeah? When you try to imitate other’s looks and exterior, you instantly become a foster someone else, leaving behind the golden you for the stoney you ( I know right? I don’t mean the stone-stone like real stone) but yeah you understand what i mean. What is more irksome is the tattered reason;just to boast!!! Well not to be left out… I remember how former U. S president’s daughter kept pestering me to be her friend and i was like “hell no”.. Why? Because that’s my imagination (i know what you thinking ok? I don’t mean the real like real Barack Obama) .

You see, as senseless as this may sound, it can’t help but be the truth, considering my family background and all, i might want to just fake it just to feel among right? But no i won’t cause am contented with the me now, so am gonna tell you this; if you think imitating their looks just to boast will gain you a fortune….. That big sorry is for you, because instead of gaining fortune you lost yourself… Yourself esteem because those looks are just mere appearances.

You don’t need money in order to increase in beauty, contentment will do the job for you. Your beauty lies in the essence of your heart… Let it shine on it’s own.

Do not want or seek to please others with that which seem to ne unbefitting to you.

I don’t wanna bore you with my words but i thought i have more to share with you, to remind you,…. Because we are in this together. Who we are is our beauty, keep rising, shining, touring and above all ascending higher.

Accept people, do not judge lest you are human.. But don’t ever imitate them. Just the way you are???? Don’t change except for what you believe and agree with, to satisfy you and yourself. Your conviction suffices….. This indeed defines you, so i urge to let the light shine on you.

Adressing society with any trends that comes with it… A reminder to every now and then to avoid falling preys of the consequences.

~rahmah4U today,and everyday society trends. ❤💖💖

Natural dislike

Walking into a fashion design shop with my bag pack hung in my shoulder, with quite few people working here and there and I said “hi” to all and went on with my business of the day(discussing with the designer about a design am interested in)…. A young girl almost my age, who seems to be an apprentice murmuring under her breath, the others laughed at what she said which my ears couldn’t pick up…. I wasn’t interested what made them laugh anyways.. As it goes on I noticed the girl glaring at me for a reason unknown, she said aloud “someone will unnecessarily occupy space in the shop standing on the way”. I looked round and I noticed I was the only one standing, and I thought to myself, it’s obvious this lady doesn’t like me… But WHY? I thought to myself, and I murmured sorry and adjusted from where I was standing.

Standing up as if wanting to get something close to me, she took me off guard by pushing me aside to walk pass me, out of rage I dragged her by the elbow, swiftly she turned with a surprise frown, I asked her;have you ever met me before? Stunned with my reaction, she shook her head in a no note…. I turned around to see everyone(including the shop owner} looking at me, waiting to see my next move, obviously surprised… And I sighed calming myself…. This lady have never met me before yet she just seem not to know me, if I allow anger to take control of me, then I just confirmed her reasons for not liking me at a first sight, I sigh and let go of her arm

You see, its OK not to like me at a sight, but what is not OK is you involving violence (because I find it so), you might get away with it if it’s me but it might be war with someone else,… What if I couldn’t control my emotions? It would have been messy, try and control your dislike for someone even though I gave you no reason to do that from initial… Human being varies in nature, what if I decide to hurt you later on? You don’t even know me…. I finished up my lecture to her, and she left for seat, head down… She said thank you… Everyone kept saying sorry, the atmosphere became loamy …went on to saying “I might end up your family member you know(with a wink)… Lightening the once dull atmosphere back to normal and everyone bursted out laughing, she smiled looking anywhere but my face.

I finished off and set to leave, slumped my bag, and waved at everyone saying bye,my partner in war(kidding), shyly asked for my number… And there,with a smile;everything’s OK. It was just a natural dislike that needs clarity….

  • Don’t give anyone the reason to confirm their illusionary thoughts and dislike of you.

  • Always control your emotions (think of what happens “if” you retaliate and “if” you don’t).

  • Always see the good in everyone, don’t allow the dark part of you to make final decisions for you.

  • Always have something +ve to say!

  • ABOVE ALL, REMEMBER ;FOR EVERY ACTION AND IN-ACTION…. THERE IS ALWAYS A CONSEQUENCY,….

    “Weight the both and pick the best!

Where is it now?

The world where no one wants to ask the other of their problems because they fear their help will be needed,….

The world where just because you couldn’t be as successful, you rejoice over their agony,…..

The world where to point finger “at” is common….

The world where we only want perfection in others not minding our flaws….

Welcome to the world where competition is regarded as success….

The world where a child doesn’t care what the parents feel……

The world where the less previledged are regarded as dirty….

The world where prayers is only needed when in trouble…….

The world where the “rich” mostly do not need God…….

The world where accidents happen but only video coverage, and selfies matters more than the patients……..

A place where if you are not of the “rich” your freedom is not yours…..

The place where if your profile is not showing you in airplanes, different countries,designers,then the content of what you write is not important….

A place where the rich fear marrying the poor simply because her house doesn’t have spacious parking lot(she could be a burden)…….

A place where the “poor” brag of that which he has not….

A place where the poor thinks lying makes them fit-in………

The world where children forsake their parents for their friends……

Where pre marital sex means nothing………

Where faking a lifestyle is the order of the day………

Where love is mistaken for lust, vice versa……..

Where is it?

Where is the conscience?

Where is it now?

Where is the goodness of mankind?

Is it that its lost now?

  • Or we choose to get rid of it…..? We need it now…. Indeed we do!

~rahmah4U

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Societal pressure today.

In a society where what ever you do seem to be another person’s ways of making up a topic for discussion… When something goes wrong somewhere and you want to make corrections or give a tip on how to go about it, the first word of discouragement is “must you be the one to talk” if say so, you say so, they say so? Then who will do the talking?

Several times have met alot of people in distress due to one pressure or the other, now they could just be needing a shoulder to sob on, to lean on… Society today only cares about the perfect side of man rather than their happiness and flaws. I write to say that societal pressure has to a great extent ruined precious lives.